“His brother? Hmmmm…All these pastors and church leaders always turn everything into a family affair”. Most people would react this way. Jealousy mixed with ignorance and distrust.
Were you there with the pastor when he had his fiery trials as he tried to establish the work for which you now desire credit and recognition? Did you weep with him when people left the church, calling him all sorts of things except “man of God?” Did you spend the night all alone in your bed because your husband or wife was away on missionary assignment? Did your family miss your presence because you were so “carried away” with church work? If not, your jealousy is misplaced.
Do you realize that when God calls a man, he calls to work all that is in the man’s life, including members of his family? When God called Adam to work the garden, he sent his wife with him. When God called Abram to inherit a promise, he didn’t leave Sarai behind. Who was Moses’ vice president and who was the women’s leader in the “Wilderness Church of God?” Who ascended the throne of David to build the temple of God? Do you realize that James, the brother of Jesus, was one of the Central Executive Council Members of the Early Church”? or maybe you think it was a mistake that the book of Jude was included in the New Testament and it had nothing to do with the issue of him being the Lord’s brother.
If you have actually thought you deserved the right to take over after the founder and you didn’t notice all these connections, then the impact of your ignorance on the rest of us would have been alarmingly disastrous. It is a blessing just to know that the mantle didn’t fall on you.
And if you actually thought that pastor was a man of God, why do you query his judgement with such tones of distrust over his motives?
Those closest to the man of God always have a place in his heart … and in the plan of God.